โ€”Working towards the middle โ€”

Salamun alaikum people!!!๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿ’• Let’s talk about ”working towards the middle”

But have you ever heard of this term?

Well if you have not, then let me tell you, it’s an Anger Management term.

We hear some people saying the we should learn to ‘fit in’ or that we should go with the flow. While some people advise us to ‘be ourself’.

‘Working towards the middle’ theory tells us that we should not have “do or die” viewpoint.

‘I will do it or I will not’ attitude proves to be a slow killer sometimes…. Causing chaos, disturbing mental peace.

We begin to compare ourselves with others and start losing self-confidence, just because we couldn’t complete something we had thought about.

Instead develop a ‘can do’ attitude. Try your level best. It gives immense satisfaction to think that we did our best. This satisfaction will help gain self-confidence which in turn helps in achieving more๐Ÿ˜Š

For it is rightly said:

ูˆูŽู„ูŽูŠูŽู†ุตูุฑูŽู†ู‘ูŽ ุงู„ู„ู‘ูŽู‡ู ู…ูŽู† ูŠูŽู†ุตูุฑูู‡ู ุฅูู†ู‘ูŽ ุงู„ู„ู‘ูŽู‡ูŽ ู„ูŽู‚ูŽูˆููŠู‘ูŒ ุนูŽุฒููŠุฒูŒ Andsurely Allah will help him who

helps His cause; most surely Allah is Strong, Mighty.

22:40 from Holy Quran

This will keep you happy and your surroundings will radiate that happiness,that joy……. In this pandemic nothing can be better than spreading joy and hope.

So remember to work towards the middle๐ŸŒˆ

P.S I read about this term in ‘Just listen’, I will be posting it’s book review soonโ™ฅ๏ธโ™ฅ๏ธโ™ฅ๏ธ